November 1st 2013 – Happy Birthday Mom!

Posted on Nov 3, 2013 | Comments Off on November 1st 2013 – Happy Birthday Mom!

Birthday Greetings

Mom is about to blow out the 97 candles

Martha with Edward and Eric wearing her handmade Halloween costumes.

Martha with Edward and Eric wearing her handmade Halloween costumes.

Mom’s day was filled with love and celebration. Dean & Martha made an apple spice  birthday cake and the grand children joined them dressed in their Halloween costumes. I joined mom for dinner and it looks like there will be a new resident sitting at her table. After dinner Kaitlyn arrived with a dozen red roses and a sweet visit.

It’s early Sunday morning and I’m making my way through my morning routine when I take my time at the house as I gradually wake up. It feels like my own sacred space where I can gather strength and then come up with some loosely projected clarity of what my priorities should be.  At the same time I remind myself that accepting anything as the moment presents it is the best plan. Then I hop mom’s and I’m off to greet the new day with her. Outside her door I take a deep breath and quietly enter. How was her night and can we make this day be a place we want to be?

Mom reading the birthday poem Frine wrote for her.

Mom reading the birthday poem Frine wrote for her.

Kaitlyn with mom and the red roses.

Kaitlyn with mom and the red roses.